tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post1874999582485482294..comments2023-09-09T11:42:59.544-04:00Comments on The Blubber Blog: "I Know You Have the Lapband"Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-34937580588766907012010-11-04T13:17:11.002-04:002010-11-04T13:17:11.002-04:00It may turn out to be a blessing in disguise! you ...It may turn out to be a blessing in disguise! you never know. Support in real life, outside of blogland, I mean.<br /><br /><br />BTW, I'm back at Operation Stick To It and am reconnecting with old blogs I used to correspond with! operationsticktoit.blogspot.com<br /><br />LindaLinda - Operation Stick To Ithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08063978933628247196noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-10456011108788894452010-11-01T09:07:35.406-04:002010-11-01T09:07:35.406-04:00It is a very small world indeed!
So when do we ...It is a very small world indeed! <br /><br />So when do we get to see more progress pictures! :)Nataliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14999334781498930101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-65818380035081581892010-10-30T07:38:52.077-04:002010-10-30T07:38:52.077-04:00I don't think you got a get out of free card i...I don't think you got a get out of free card if you are eating healthy with the band. I know a gal that is NOT eating healthy and has lost 90 pounds with the band, eating macaroni and cheese, frozen burritos and misc other garbage, she makes me sad sometimes, because she has put a bandaid on a broken leg!!! she may lose all her weight when it is all said and done, but will she have a healthier body??? well I guess thats just not my business!!! she is a beautiful person, just makes me sad she hasn't used the band as a way to get healthy, just as a tool to be thinner. It really made me realize that I am not on a "diet" I have a "healthy diet" <br /><br />sorry to ramble, you just touched a topic I have been unable to blog about as she reads my blog and I would never want to hurt her with my opinionsKarlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16921999791351191824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-1574890643296925152010-10-28T14:47:32.129-04:002010-10-28T14:47:32.129-04:00It sounds like you're ashamed of having the la...It sounds like you're ashamed of having the lapband... and I'm sorry but that's not good.<br /><br />I know a lot of people look at it as an easy way out too - people said the same thing to me when I filed bankruptcy a year ago. But what people don't realize is that sometimes we do reach the point where everything else has failed and we need help. To you, the lapband was your asking for help.<br /><br />I've researched the band - it's not for me. BUT I chose not to do it because it seemed to require MORE work than just diet and exercise - all the dr. appointments and such before and after plus having to still diet and exercise - yeah that doesn't sound like an easy way out to me.<br /><br />I hope you take a little time to reflect on why you're so ashamed of getting the band - that could be part of why you're struggling to keep losing weight.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02121415777628469228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-74746755307025172482010-10-28T07:40:39.326-04:002010-10-28T07:40:39.326-04:00...there are so many confusing issues to deal with......there are so many confusing issues to deal with as a bandit. when/where/how/who to come out with is a tough one we all struggle with. but sometimes we just need to live our truth...out loud. and flip the haters & doubters a big bird finger! let em talk...!Maybe This Timehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10958355014726698878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-90439692081199518082010-10-28T03:18:08.925-04:002010-10-28T03:18:08.925-04:00Wow, that was sort of intrusive of your neighbor--...Wow, that was sort of intrusive of your neighbor-- I don't blame you for feeling jarred... that said: once the cat is out of the bag, I think it is great if you can offer support...do what works for you.Dinnerlandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10692242456211545949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-48278565852761579432010-10-27T18:09:52.554-04:002010-10-27T18:09:52.554-04:00Wow. I'm sorry that you were outed. I love m...Wow. I'm sorry that you were outed. I love my anonymity for MANY reasons. But maybe it'll turn out to be a good thing - you never know. Now someone in real life could vent with you or bounce questions off each other.♥ Drazil ♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/10177140029694038645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-13213151815047672072010-10-27T16:56:05.806-04:002010-10-27T16:56:05.806-04:00As someone who is about to get surgery, I have no ...As someone who is about to get surgery, I have no idea why anyone feels they have to keep it a secret. (to each his own) Who cares how someone chose to lose weight? Everyone and their mama knows that I can't wait to get it done. :)InWeighOverMyHeadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01032540746184680521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-37509626831526703272010-10-27T16:44:42.049-04:002010-10-27T16:44:42.049-04:00I'm glad you've chosen #2 as well. With h...I'm glad you've chosen #2 as well. With hopes she will keep her word and the two of you can work together.~Lisa~https://www.blogger.com/profile/00758877185557627942noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-13499099206206291382010-10-27T16:44:24.176-04:002010-10-27T16:44:24.176-04:00I did it without the band because I couldn't a...I did it without the band because I couldn't abide the idea of being cut open.Period. I have no good or bad impressions of it other than it involves hospitals and doctors and those are two things I want to avoid at all costs. I am sorry you were 'outed' (I feel like I am on Sally Jesse or something) but it might feel a little better to just be up front than trying to 'hide' it.<br />It's nothing to be ashamed of...and hiding is often a bigger burden than just being upfront and honest. Keep up the good work.Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13708815560712267698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-28727442125793563622010-10-27T16:00:03.249-04:002010-10-27T16:00:03.249-04:00I was outed too and it hurts. Even though we know...I was outed too and it hurts. Even though we know the internet isn't private, it is easy to feel that we are anonymous here. For what is worth, I think you made the right call by being honest with your neighbor. It sounds like she could use the help and support.Amanda Kiskahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08035180757671095192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-73642468396047125232010-10-27T15:44:08.693-04:002010-10-27T15:44:08.693-04:00I secretly have this fear. My company covers band...I secretly have this fear. My company covers banding and I fear being discovered on the blogs. Why? I think on the whole, most people perceive weight as a sign of weakness. For this reason, I've only shared my lap band surgery story with a small circle and the blogging community. I know my blog is very anonymous but I'm not ready to come out yet and get a shout out like this one. At least not yet, as I start my journey. <br /><br />I think you handled it well and that you will make the right decision on how to share with her and be supportive. You just seem like that type of person-"nice and giving".Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10594536445697602339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-70326664098775908422010-10-27T15:38:16.805-04:002010-10-27T15:38:16.805-04:00Just think what a wonderful support you can be to ...Just think what a wonderful support you can be to each other, this could be a real blessing to have someone close by to share the journey with. Good luck!Theresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07794746954511347596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-90850349855214784972010-10-27T15:19:52.002-04:002010-10-27T15:19:52.002-04:00I'm glad you've chosen #2, and I REALLY ho...I'm glad you've chosen #2, and I REALLY hope your neighbor chooses to leave your private business, private.<br /><br />That said, those of us who are not banded, (if I shall speak for the bunch) do not feel that a band is taking the easy way out. You still have to choose healthy foods if you want to be healthy, you still have to get off your couch and work out if you want to be fit. For the folks who have never struggled with weight or eating...well I don't know what they think about weight loss surgery. They probably think we former 'hefties' are all wimpy and lazy anyway, right? What's a little band added to the mix?<br /><br />You're doing so well, and my hope is, your neighbor will see your butt out there running, and want to start doing that too...99ToGohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15907137892373765012noreply@blogger.com