tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post2706335877315099107..comments2023-09-09T11:42:59.544-04:00Comments on The Blubber Blog: HYC Check In and God's GraceLynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-33233759298068492482008-07-23T14:29:00.000-04:002008-07-23T14:29:00.000-04:00Debby-Thanks for the advice, I have been told by m...Debby-<BR/>Thanks for the advice, I have been told by many people in my life that I have a problem with boundaries. I can never say no. I am working on this...<BR/>Thanks for the book, I will look into it.<BR/>As for exercising boundaries immediately, I have decided that my sister is not welcome to stay here again if she will not allow me to discipline her son, plain and simple. Our rules are their rules!Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-62734773684671883422008-07-23T10:37:00.000-04:002008-07-23T10:37:00.000-04:00Dear Lynn, I hesitate to leave this comment and ha...Dear Lynn, I hesitate to leave this comment and have thought about it for a while, so forgive me if it is unwanted advice. But from a lot of your posts, I think you have a problem with setting boundaries. And then you are unhappy with how people treat you, which is extremely stressful, and then makes you overeat. There is a book I have read that maybe would be helpful to you. It is simply called Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend.<BR/><BR/>If you want more information, feel free to email me, Lynn.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-74684393468845102512008-07-23T07:09:00.000-04:002008-07-23T07:09:00.000-04:00I enjoy your writing so much!! You are so honest a...I enjoy your writing so much!! You are so honest and up front... thank you a million times for that... <BR/> I am praying you will find out what is breaking your boy out in hives soon...Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13247129598108635938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-10736374343794033382008-07-22T23:13:00.000-04:002008-07-22T23:13:00.000-04:00Good for you, quickly getting back on track. It's...Good for you, quickly getting back on track. It's obvious you love your sister, but don't let her drag you down. *hugs* Be sure while you are helping her bear her burdens that you remember to take care of yourself--I'm glad you are taking the initiative on that! Keep up the good work!!<BR/>~BethanyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-68873788817798253562008-07-22T22:52:00.000-04:002008-07-22T22:52:00.000-04:00I am the queen of taking on other people's emotion...I am the queen of taking on other people's emotions and learning to step back and distance myself emotionally...be there for them, not actually be like them. You are stepping out of it nicely, sounds like the visit wreaked havoc on you...congrats for stepping back to where you want to be :)<BR/><BR/>Tracy (no holes barred)Simplymoihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03247995065336437126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-89224886105670745332008-07-22T19:02:00.000-04:002008-07-22T19:02:00.000-04:00I am out surfing diet blogs and just wanted to say...I am out surfing diet blogs and just wanted to say hello. I can relate to relatives bringing your mood down- I think it's easy to "soak up" the problems of someone you're close to if you're already not in a great place yourself. (Speaking from experience, here.)Violethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16836692168921773789noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-60108764700575714122008-07-22T18:54:00.000-04:002008-07-22T18:54:00.000-04:00Congrats on the no gain!Congrats on the no gain!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-68880143368173845392008-07-22T15:41:00.000-04:002008-07-22T15:41:00.000-04:00Here's to staying on track ;) You can do it.....I...Here's to staying on track ;) You can do it.....I hope all is okaynew*mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05147814248509745599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-74975519434471613352008-07-22T14:51:00.000-04:002008-07-22T14:51:00.000-04:00Oh, the suspense...are you gonna call me????Oh, the suspense...are you gonna call me????Fat Free Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11338351502601123896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-39626335848880852042008-07-22T14:16:00.000-04:002008-07-22T14:16:00.000-04:00You are doing a great job and I have really enjoye...You are doing a great job and I have really enjoyed reading your blog. Keep it up!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-30347951753143520212008-07-22T10:46:00.000-04:002008-07-22T10:46:00.000-04:00Relatives can really do a number on your plans, ca...Relatives can really do a number on your plans, can't they?<BR/><BR/>Glad to see you're back in the game. I feel some kinship here, sharing a name the way we do ;-)Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13102363251376084521noreply@blogger.com