tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-50505270203386117212024-02-19T04:23:34.153-05:00The Blubber BlogLynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.comBlogger275125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-23578635350787396972012-10-24T12:40:00.002-04:002012-10-24T13:13:19.120-04:00Here is MY Story<br />
I would like to share my story here on my blog. As you read my story, please keep in mind that it is exactly that, MY story. What I am about to write is my personal experience of life with the lap-band, and may be very different from other stories you have heard, or not.<br />
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I was banded back in August of 2009. I weighed, at that time, my highest weight ever at 294 pounds. I had tried SO many times before then to lose weight: Weight Watchers, prescription medication, starvation, bulimia, excessive exercise, anorexia... etc. You name it, and I am sure I have tried it. After researching the band, and reading what I wanted to read, I decided to become banded.<br />
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After the band was in place, my life changed completely. The weight started falling off- 17 pounds in one month. My energy was through the roof for the first time in a very long time. I would find myself outside for HOURS running around playing with my two young boys. My depression lifted and for the first time in my weight loss journey, which started when I was 8, I felt a sense of HOPE.<br />
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Having hope for the first time was so empowering. I started gardening again. I was able to RUN again. Life was great! Life was great and my pants were falling off- shopping in the regular size clothing section holds a feeling that I cannot explain. Even though my thick hair was starting to fall out in clumps, nothing could bring me down.<br />
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I started running every night and worked my way up to 3 miles a night. It wasn't a marathon, by definition, but it was my own mini marathon. I was darn proud of myself and it felt great to have self-confidence again. I was on top of the WORLD!! I ate very little and had to chew my food well, but had a pretty good level of restriction. If I pushed my luck, I would end up in the bathroom.<br />
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The weight loss started to slow down, as expected, and I plateaued after losing 75 pounds. Up until that point, I would see my surgeon for a small tweak here and there to help achieve optimal restriction with the band.<br />
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In November 2010, I went into my surgeon's office to have a fill because I was able to eat more than usual. I went in and the PA put in 2 whole ccs. As it turned out, that was way too much and I ended up vomiting non-stop for three days. I called my surgeon's office, but they told me because it was a long weekend, I'd have to go to the hospital until someone could take fluid out on Tuesday. Seriously!? I couldn't even drink water and no one could meet me at the office for ten minutes to help me!!?? On Tuesday I went back in to have a slight fill removed, and received some bad news. My doctor examined me under fluoroscopy while drinking barium and found that my esophagus was severely dilated and had become aplastic (pre-cancerous). He sent me home to "enjoy" a<b> two week </b>"band holiday" (a band holiday is when all of the fluid is removed from the band), along with a prescription for steroids and Omeprazole.<br />
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Feeling disconcerted, I took away from my appointment that things would be fine and hey! I could now enjoy steak again!! Woo-hoo! FOOD! FOOD! FOOD! I could eat any food I wanted without fear of getting stuck or getting sick. It was a great "band holiday" that turned into <b>six weeks</b>. My esophagus was still in bad shape when I went in for my 2 week and 4 week check-up after my episode, and required even more steroids. Now, let me say this, I know that a band holiday does NOT imply you get to eat whatever you want, but my sick brain had it all under control. Right? Wrong. In that six week period, with help from massive amounts of steroids, I gained around 15 pounds. Not good.<br />
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Around this time I developed a peculiar symptom. For no reason at all, my body would flush, swell up and itch. Itch like I've never itched before. I scratched at myself until I bled. I was miserable. The itching drove me crazy. Like psych patient crazy. The doctor ran tests, but never found an explanation. The only conclusion he could come to was that I may possibly be allergic to the band. <br />
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In February of 2011, I finally started my journey back to a healthy fill level. I went in every 4 weeks to slowly add fluid to my band. This continued until as sense of despair took over. We couldn't seem to get it working again. I was able to either eat anything I wanted, or nothing at all. It was extremely frustrating. I tried to keep up with my running, but with the weight creeping back on, it became too much for my poor little feet. I ended up sustaining an injury to my right foot that grounded me. So, without a good fill, and being unable to exercise comfortably, the weight stopped creeping on and flew on, only to stick like glue. The 240s, the 250s, the 260s... seems like in the blink of an eye, I was back in the 270s. I was out of control again. The itching started getting better, but was still an issue.<br />
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Once I was firmly planted in the 270s, things went from bad to worse. A feeling of general malaise took over, I felt sick all of the time- tired (the kind of fatigue you feel when you've been up all night for 3 months straight with your newborn), seriously depressed, everything seemed to be falling apart.<br />
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Unable to get my band to start working again, I ended up eating only slider foods (sliders are foods that seem to "slide" through the band's restriction with ease). My diet consisted of popcorn, soda (diet and non-diet), ice cream, chocolate, candy... etc. I had lost hope and quickly slumped into a deeper depression. I went to my primary physician time and time again insisting something must be wrong with me. I MUST have Lyme disease, MS, something! The way I was feeling was not normal. My blood results always came back "normal".<br />
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I decided that it must be my surgeon's fault and sought out a new surgeon. Surely he could get my band working again. Despite his best, and my fleeting efforts and my flimsy resolve, I still existed on crap food. Before I knew it, I saw 300 on the scale. 300. 300!! I never thought I would ever see that number. I was crushed. I continued to see my primary doctor from time to time positive that they would certainly find the cause of my constant ill feeling and my "un-explained" weight gain.<br />
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You see, despite my surgery and a year of absolute bliss, my brain was still "sick". I had and still have the brain of someone with an eating disorder. Sure, I had the band. Sure, I started exercising. Sure, I was losing weight and life was great. BUT, I did nothing to "treat" the REAL issue- my sick head. I couldn't justify my weight gain to myself because I was hardly eating! There must be something wrong with me. My thyroid, cancer... something! Find it and fix me!! I may have been hardly eating, but what I was eating consisted of empty calories void of any nutrition. No wonder I felt so sick all of the time! I was gaining weight while starving to death at the same time. I was also unable to properly digest my food. I would eat at 11:00am and at 11:30pm, I would bend over to kiss my dog goodnight, and the food I had eaten 12 hours earlier would come right back up into my mouth. I figured it was just GERD. Up until August of 2012, I went back and forth to the bariatric surgeon confident that this visit, this time, I was going to be "fixed" and life would be great again. It never happened. I started looking into having the "sleeve" procedure performed. I was aching for a sense of hope again, and I was positive this would be the correct route for me. I scheduled a consult with my surgeon, a dietician and a psychologist to proceed with the sleeve surgery.<br />
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In the beginning of September 2012, I started feeling extremely ill. Beyond what I had been dealing with for the past two years. It started off as back pain. After a few days, the back pain radiated around to my ribs and abdomen. It hurt to move. The stabbing pain would drop me to my knees and I would scream out in pain, often embarrassing myself in public. A week into the pain, I started vomiting and having diarrhea. I concluded I had a kidney stone and needed to wait things out. Another week went by and things started getting worse. I saw my primary doctor, and she sent me to have a CT scan of my gallbladder. The scan showed no kidney stones, no gallbladder stones and my appendix appeared to be just fine. A few days later, I was on my way to a homeschool co-op with my boys in the van. I started passing out and dry heaving and vomiting uncontrollably. I kept pulling off to the side of the highway every time I started blacking out, and by the grace of GOD, got my boys to their Daddy's work safely. I drove myself to the emergency department fearing I was dying. Yes, it was THAT bad.<br />
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The ED doctor ordered an ultrasound of my abdomen and when that came back clear, he concluded I had a stomach bug and told me I could be admitted for pain management, or he would just have to send me home. Feeling like a washrag, I picked-up my things and went home. The pain only got worse and I didn't think I would make it through the night. I had an odd sense of calm come over me when I thought about not waking up the next day. I thought for sure this was the LORD's plan, and that my time had come. I hurt for my husband and two boys who wouldn't have a Mommy. Obviously, I made it.<br />
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Feeling desperate, I decided to see a Gastroenterologist and returned to my original bariatric surgeon for advice. I had an upper GI scope and a nuclear medicine (Hida scan) scan of my gallbladder. Certain it was indeed my gallbladder, my bariatric surgeon had me scheduled that same day for a gallbladder removal. The Hida scan showed my gallbladder was fine. Surgery was cancelled.<br />
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My upper endoscopy showed my esophagus was extremely swollen and dilated. This explained why my food would come back up into my mouth twelve hours later. My esophagus was acting as a stomach and my food was sitting there, undigested. I have dis-motility of my esophagus and it is now pre-cancerous. I am on special medication to help with the internal damage, but there is nothing they can do beyond that. The inflammation is too severe.<br />
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My band needed to be removed as soon as possible. Even though my band was empty, my stomach had swollen shut. Wednesday, September 26th, my band was removed. <br />
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During my removal surgery, my surgeon noted that I have a good deal of internal inflammation. My band had caused such an irritation of my stomach, it was just a snowball effect from there. My surgeon told me that they aren't even recommending the Lap-band any longer, and in it's place are suggesting the sleeve procedure. They are now seeing that the band is causing more harm then good over the long term.<br />
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Today, sitting at 305 pounds, I am in agony while dealing with the destruction my band left in it's wake. My gallbladder is inflamed, causing nausea and diarrhea with vomiting. My esophagus is pre-cancerous and inflamed. My stomach is swollen and I still vomit. I have developed Costochondritis (rib and sternum inflammation- bone and cartilage) which causes an extreme amount of discomfort when I move, laugh, sneeze, drive and at night when I try to sleep. I feel like my insides are being crushed.<br />
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On another note, I am able to eat vegetables and protein again! I find myself eating a bowl full of asparagus or broccoli for lunch. It's so nice to be able to finally eat healthy foods! I never thought the band would cause such poor diet choices. I have some really bad habits that I need to break and I am learning how to eat properly all over again. <br />
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Because my poor body has been put through so much, on my own doing, I have decided against the sleeve procedure. At this point, I cannot fathom putting my body through anymore suffering. I am praying that my body can heal from all of the damage caused over the course of the last three years. I am praying that I may one day feel normal again.<br />
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<i>***After you read my story, and you think to yourself, "Geez, this is so strange, I've only heard wonderful things about the band?", <b>please remember that most of the people who "fail" with the band also keep their stories to themselves.</b> They experience a sense of failure and embarrassment, and fall off of the radar. This is why there are so many huge gaps in my blog, when times were rough, I stopped blogging. I felt that I shouldn't blog unless I had something positive and encouraging to share. Make sure you are speaking to people who have failed with the band as well as following and reading all of the success stories here in Blogland.*** </i><br />
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<b>Best of luck to you, and thank you for reading my story! </b> Please feel free to email me with any thoughts, comments or questions you have, but please try not to be mean or ugly. Again, this is MY story. <br />
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<br />Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com18tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-20474970643417676792012-09-01T01:00:00.005-04:002012-09-01T01:00:58.810-04:00I'm still alive! It's been over a year, but I'm still chugging right along. I have a LONG post I need to write to catch everyone up. I've missed you all!<br />
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I look forward to catching you guys up!<br />
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Be back soon!!Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-52644400690581928912011-07-16T22:28:00.003-04:002011-07-16T22:45:39.502-04:00I'm BackI'm back, in two ways.<br /><br />1. Back on my blog.<br /><br />&<br /><br />2. Back to my original starting weight.<br /><br />Thank you to all of you who have written to check-in with me during these past few months. I'm sorry that I haven't been around to be supportive of your journeys.<br /><br />I have found myself laying in bed late at night writing my next blog post- for the past TWO months. After starting to go up, Up, UP on the scale, I think there has been a part of me that was too embarrassed to get on here and admit failure. After all, I DID have weight-loss surgery. SURGERY! Sigh.<br /><br />I wake-up EVERY morning vowing to start anew, but go to bed every night BEGGING our glorious LORD to please help me.<br /><br />Besides my husband deciding to start a new career path, after putting almost 11 years of school into his current career, I really have no sources of new stress. Albeit, my husband's mid-life crisis (apparently he's not going to live past the age of 70) is definitely stressful, I SHOULD be able to manage my life efficiently, incorporating healthy eating and exercising into my schedule. How was THAT for a run-on sentence!?!?<br /><br />After getting down to an all-time adult-low of 220, I am back up to 285. In less than 8 months! Is that even possible? Back in November, when my band had to be set free for a while, I decided to go on vacation with her. But instead of her returning after only a week away, she stayed away for two months due to my esophagus swelling to a dangerous size. It all went down hill from there. In that time, ALL of my old behaviors came tumbling back.<br /><br />Around 260 pounds, my foot started hurting pretty badly, grounding me from jogging. Now, at 285, the podiatrist has said that the pads that are between my toes and the connection point to my foot- at the first MP joints- are torn. So, I am stuck in a catch 22. Exercising is extremely painful, so I HAVE to get some of this weight off to finally induce some healing. <br /><br />My feet hurt. My knees hurt. I have fat rolls where I've never had fat rolls before. I am thoroughly depressed and discouraged. I am hot all of the time. I don't run and play with my boys anymore. I don't fit into cars comfortably. I don't enjoy my husband touching me again. I don't, I don't, I don't. <br /><br />I need to start living my life again! Last summer, at 220 pounds, I felt like a whole new person! My life was so different in so many ways. If I listed all of the benefits of being at that healthier weight, I would be here at the computer for two weeks.<br /><br />I have decided to contact a new surgeon on Monday in hopes that he will put some saline into my band (only after being fully informed about my history of course). At this point, I am willing to enlarge my esophagus if that means that I will live past the age of 45!Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com25tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-33470315744121009962011-04-10T18:44:00.003-04:002011-04-10T18:46:09.524-04:00Moving AlongI am just kind of here. Not doing GREAT and not doing poorly. I might see a loss on the scale by a pound or two and then a gain of a pound or two. I'm just trying not to obsess. <br /><br />So, that's me.<br /><br />Hope you are all doing wonderful! Thanks for reading and for your support. I really need it.Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-59748980167917690732011-03-27T00:10:00.003-04:002011-03-27T00:16:59.538-04:00Why is it that even though I try so damn hard, I keep going UP on the scale? I am going to throw her to the curb- we've had a seriously tumultuous relationship, and I seriously hate her right now.<br /><br />She is in the bathroom right now, hiding behind the toilet like the coward she is, plotting how to dash my hopes and dreams tomorrow morning. I think she's worked a deal out with Satan & the Fat Fairy.<br /><br />I haven't been completely "clean" when it comes to food, but I SURE AS HELL have not been eating enough to deserve the kind of gain that I have been seeing. I almost feel like I should at least be enjoying some seriously yummy, and bad for me food, to be blowing up like a freaking balloon. *SIGH* One or two rice krispy treats, or a medium Dr. Pepper here and there, should NOT be adding this kind of weight! A dozen doughnuts a day, I could see.<br /><br />AND! Even if I was eating like I did BEFORE my surgery (all day, whatever I wanted), just adding my 400+ calorie burn workouts everyday should be yielding SOME results, no!?<br /><br />Tomorrow...Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-4182667629034173582011-03-23T21:07:00.002-04:002011-03-23T21:12:49.585-04:00Day OneDay one is almost to an end, and I feel skinnier already! ;)<br /><br />My day?<br /><br />Breakfast: one English muffin with a poached egg and a sprinkle of cheese<br />Lunch: Fish filet sandwich w/o bread<br />Snacks: TOO many cookies. :(<br />Dinner: Tuna with curry and TONS of baby lettuce and an apple<br />Exercise: 350 calories burned walking at 3.6 mph at an incline of 10<br /><br />I did not have a PERFECT day, but what I DID have was a day full of MINDFUL eating, not just blindly going about. I actually have a deficit of 120 calories for the day- so, that works!Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-38003109622387544852011-03-23T00:09:00.004-04:002011-03-23T00:29:02.132-04:00I Gained 18 Pounds Using My Treadmill!GAINED!?<br /><br />HUH!?<br /><br />Nope, I didn't write the post title wrong, unfortunately.<br /><br />Since I bought my treadmill back in December, I have gained almost 20 pounds. AND, I have used my treadmill for a hefty 300-700 calorie burn almost every single day!<br /><br />No, I am not going to sit here and tell you my sob story about how I am doing everything right; eating right, exercising daily, being nice to my neighbors... etc, and I just don't know WHY I am gaining!? Woo if me.<br /><br />Okay, moving along. I am gaining because I am eating too much. Plain and simple. I am not eating too much of the "bad" things like ice cream, soda, cookies... but I am obviously doing something wrong. Could it be the sugar I am adding to my "healthy" strawberry smoothie in the mornings? Yup. Could it be the extra cheese I order on my "healthy" lunch at the Mexican restaurant? Yup. Could it be the extra miniature Peppermint Patty I eat at night? Yup.<br /><br />I have become so good at convincing others that I am eating well, that I am now convincing myself! While sabotaging my life in the process. It's late here on the East Coast- it's well after midnight, and for a Mom who has been dealing with the stomach bug wreaking havoc on our laundry, our carpets, our public outings and OUR LIVES for over a week now, I should be sleeping.<br /><br />I can't sleep right now. I can't sleep because I am suffering from heartburn and reflux. I am suffering from these things because of the loads of weight I have packed onto my poor body over the course of the last five months. I can feel my body panicking, pleading with my brain to "get control!" already. Laying in bed thinking about how my aches and pains are back- my feet hurt! my hips hurt! my knees hurt!, my reflux is back, my sleep apnea is back, I have no clothes that fit, my five year old is now asking me why I am "so tough?", his word for fat, and worst of all- I feel absolutely horrible about myself.<br /><br />So, why would all of this be worth the 20 seconds it takes to enjoy one chocolate cookie? one small soda? one LARGE soda? one Christmas dinner? one special date night with my husband? just one more, just one more, just one more... I'll start again tomorrow.... I'll be good tomorrow... I deserve this... I'm tired.... I've been under a lot of stress lately... I'm happy... I'm sad.... You hurt my feelings...<br /><br />Nothing, NOTHING is worth it. NOT ONE THING. Maybe except sparing the life of one of my children or even my husband, but we are talking about sparing MY life here. MY LIFE. ME.<br /><br />Wow, talk about a heavy, unloading post here folks. But, it's been too long since I've posted, so long in fact that I almost forgot how to log in. I need to stay active amongst the rest of you, I need to hold myself accountable. I need your help.<br /><br />Some of you noticed that I have been MIA lately, thank you so much for your thoughts. I appreciate ALL of you SO, SO much. Instead of running away and hiding when things get bad, I have to stay here, stay positive, and use this wonderful tool.<br /><br />I'm going to sign off now- the leaning tower of Pisa, aka the family laundry pile, is on the guest bed next to me and making me want to go and eat. ;)<br /><br />Until tomorrow my friends. Good night!!! Hope you are all doing well.Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-30188947861482232802011-01-23T23:01:00.004-05:002011-01-23T23:09:45.702-05:00Interactive Health Partner<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMkZeRPDlDKCL5dEtkU6Aw2IUFSruIJ_WFE2ySsk1MZtNh_eUy6XVArfmMZz7H2eYlA077BRtP_lmnpdMwb513uRo-5huTHDid-pNgbtcK0zw1PrF6NVWOtx5gMf17H6k4e1T5w1EvzVQ/s1600/treadmill.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMkZeRPDlDKCL5dEtkU6Aw2IUFSruIJ_WFE2ySsk1MZtNh_eUy6XVArfmMZz7H2eYlA077BRtP_lmnpdMwb513uRo-5huTHDid-pNgbtcK0zw1PrF6NVWOtx5gMf17H6k4e1T5w1EvzVQ/s400/treadmill.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5565599036067671282" border="0" /></a><br />My awesome new treadmill comes with a USB port so I can download and sync my workouts with a program called, <a href="https://www.myexerciserx.com/">Interactive Health Partner</a>. It's really neat stuff.<br /><br />My treadmill counts and records the number of steps I take, calories burned and all sorts of cool stats per workout period. It's the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/LifeSpan-TR-1200i-Folding-Treadmill/dp/B0030EW7Q8">Lifespan 1200i </a>model and so far, even though I haven't used it, I love it! ;)<br /><br />I plan on hopping on the beauty tomorrow morning, regardless of my respiratory health status. I'm just going to do it!<br /><br />On a side note- I just changed my weight loss ticker to reflect my lengthy "Band Holiday". There are no excuses, but MAN, I am feeling crushed. Geez Louise. It's better than being UP 50 pounds from my starting weight though.Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-76315958240239020272011-01-22T20:50:00.004-05:002011-01-22T20:53:04.105-05:00Chomping At The Bit<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhbeydyXwCnjNE_NnbNngvnx6H0wPXPGOgldDU3f_xQQBdPjWogr1KAE8x8-5n3HJzFz2W3iZUrqAWSCa7de9RzLNdU4W-aPKxLhL8I88KLjR7rRKCeu7YGAs2p1Ql5UOHBLdu_tKS14PU/s1600/horse.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 245px; height: 192px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhbeydyXwCnjNE_NnbNngvnx6H0wPXPGOgldDU3f_xQQBdPjWogr1KAE8x8-5n3HJzFz2W3iZUrqAWSCa7de9RzLNdU4W-aPKxLhL8I88KLjR7rRKCeu7YGAs2p1Ql5UOHBLdu_tKS14PU/s400/horse.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5565193453985472226" border="0" /></a><br />My treadmill was delivered several days ago. BUT, because I am STILL recovering from the flu, I haven't had a chance to use it yet.<br /><br />I feel like a horse at the starting gate- I just want to GO, GO, GO!!!!!!Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-29705299386325320632011-01-19T11:21:00.003-05:002011-01-19T11:23:18.443-05:00Shop Amazon???<span style="font-weight: bold;">This isn't spam- just a really good deal!!! :)</span> Thought I would pass it along to my fellow bloggers.<br /><br /><a href="https://livingsocial.com/deals/21336?ref=conf-jp&rpi=4103127"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Buy a $20 giftcard for Amazon.com for only $10!!!</span></a>Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-29409546714895730442011-01-18T21:32:00.004-05:002011-01-18T21:47:23.672-05:00All is Calm, All is Bright<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCOr827NinRrJykOM2e2tqJz_Zb7ENKnSjGmsjn0et0cgXVU_eNw707mSq15R3Y14qtQbcW76bBYNp4mjHj2Zk5sn6tE4kbPVovmRrlv7oRQd2o3hiw2hyphenhyphen18RKQsMLzsyQq7ZLEU7RrSM/s1600/tunnel.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 193px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCOr827NinRrJykOM2e2tqJz_Zb7ENKnSjGmsjn0et0cgXVU_eNw707mSq15R3Y14qtQbcW76bBYNp4mjHj2Zk5sn6tE4kbPVovmRrlv7oRQd2o3hiw2hyphenhyphen18RKQsMLzsyQq7ZLEU7RrSM/s320/tunnel.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5563722862419590178" border="0" /></a><br />Well, there is light at the end of my tunnel folks. Phew.<br /><br />My esophagus HAS healed, and my allergic symptoms (although still there) have faded as well. My surgeon highly doubts I have an allergy to the band. HUGE sigh of relief. I am going to be going to the allergist soon to have him test me for what might be causing my symptoms.<br /><br />I have gone back three times now for fills since my esophagus "blew up". The first fill brought no restriction, it basically primed the tubing. The second fill was cut short when my doctor hit a nerve on the way in and I passed out cold on the floor. EMBARASSING. So, I went back today for my third fill, which FINALLY brought some restriction. I can definitely tell I have a band again. THANK YOU GOD.<br /><br />Besides fighting off the flu, things are good right now. I am so relieved that things are looking up. My new treadmill is even going to be delivered tomorrow! Woo-hoo! There is one thing I hate more than running on a treadmill, not being to run at all. Since I can't run outside because of my asthma, treadmill it is. I plan on posting a few of my "before" photos on the dashboard for some inspiration to KEEP GOING even when I want to stop.<br /><br />I am up 25 pounds since all hell broke loose two months ago. That's a lot to lose all over again. BUT, it's something I have done before, and something I can and will do again. By golly.<br /><br />One very important lesson I have learned from all of this: Do not assume that a "Band Holiday" is going to be short lived, go out and go hog wild with food, only to have your brief stint in Buffet-ville extended until before you know it, you've packed on 25 pounds. I will not make that mistake again. Poor judgment call big time on my part.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSrg_e4a0NPDVgU6LbzMPRqcIT7UlSuyHFAyrcOVo7PyMaMGzmGSHsDNomHJvqa6Za7giLc7Lwf3-kYcjd64XPVzRPiJWqjQ9WvC1hphsT3zFPnj9Jo0cMjGzODs13diuxrlutlDOauLE/s1600/tunnel3.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 274px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSrg_e4a0NPDVgU6LbzMPRqcIT7UlSuyHFAyrcOVo7PyMaMGzmGSHsDNomHJvqa6Za7giLc7Lwf3-kYcjd64XPVzRPiJWqjQ9WvC1hphsT3zFPnj9Jo0cMjGzODs13diuxrlutlDOauLE/s320/tunnel3.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5563722869870158450" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVw4O0E_cg5b3LfxCoJERGoCAwRmHUu1CpWPfJb00mpn5bYYRb2lB94beaW-GzChln34JewzVOpXJCFc40lgxuFMYPBbQ8YPlWh5dj1uF78vhn0Xs5wkjyp10ambyGu9lF-vW3E7W5KvI/s1600/tunnel2.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 267px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhVw4O0E_cg5b3LfxCoJERGoCAwRmHUu1CpWPfJb00mpn5bYYRb2lB94beaW-GzChln34JewzVOpXJCFc40lgxuFMYPBbQ8YPlWh5dj1uF78vhn0Xs5wkjyp10ambyGu9lF-vW3E7W5KvI/s320/tunnel2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5563722866635396386" border="0" /></a>Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-28275453239473258292011-01-07T17:42:00.005-05:002011-01-07T20:20:31.142-05:00Scared Out of My Shorts- CHECK!About five weeks ago I had to go to my surgeon's office for an un-fill. I was having horrible reflux issues (ie. stomach contents coming back up and choking me during the night). It was just awful!!! I didn't get any sleep for about three nights. It turned out that I was swollen shut and I had to be un-filled completely. During the fluoroscope, the surgeon noticed that my esophagus was unusually enlarged. It was SO large in fact, he told me that if the esophageal cells remained that enlarged, they would become aplastic- a fancy word for cancerous. In an effort to reduce the swelling and return my esophagus back to normal, I was given a round of steroids and told to come back in two weeks.<br /><br />SO- three weeks ago I went back in for my recheck. Esophagus looked a little better, still not back to normal. Only put 2ccs back in which gave me NO restriction. I was told I needed to wait another two weeks before putting any more fluids in. Oh- and by the way, my cardiac hernia is back. F-A-N-T-A-S-T-I-C. What does this mean? I may need to have another surgery to correct my hernia. Okay, okay. Whatever I need to do. Not my first choice, but lets get this band a-rock'in! I feel like out of the 17 months I've had this sucker, I've only had about 7 months of "good" restriction. Other than that, I've been too full and had to be drained due to swelling. That's my routine! I swell shut after a fill and that's all she wrote.<br /><br />I am anxiously awaiting my appointment for this Tuesday. My husband plans to go with me to hear if/why I need surgery. It helps for the surgeon to explain why we'll be dropping another $5,000+ on our out-of-pocket expenses this year. Joy!<br /><br />So why am I scared?<br /><br />Weeeeeeeeeelllll.... in the meantime, I have been experiencing some not so nice symptoms. It's been about a month, but I have off and on spells of all over body chills and itching. I occasionally have what I describe as a "racoon face"- flushing all over my face but not around my eyes, in a mask like fashion. Sometimes the itching is so intense it actually reduces me to tears. I feel like a mental patient constantly digging at myself. Then, I will have two to three days of no itching at all.<br /><br />My general practitioner prescribed an antihistamine and another round of steroids to combat my body's inflammation. He said we may never know what caused my allergic reaction, but the medicine should take care of it. <br /><br />It didn't.<br /><br />I continue to have flushing, dizzy spells, itching, burning up and chills. I have even started having bad night-sweats where I wake-up during the night and can't even move because I am stuck to the sheets I am so wet! So I went to the doctor again today.<br /><br />He wants me to take another round of steroids and he drew some blood. All of my symptoms sound like Lymphoma, so I have been nervous. My doctor stuck his nose up to my Lymphoma theory and acted kind of aloof. He wouldn't give me any ideas as to what is going on with me. He was about to leave the room, and I blurted out, "Could I be allergic to my band!?". He looked down at the floor, shook his head and very sheepishly said, "Yes. I didn't want to go there, but that is where I am afraid this is heading".<br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">ARE YOU SERIOUS!?!?!?</span></span><br /><br />I am beside myself with the fear of the possibility of losing my band. I called my mother to tell her what the doctor's theory was and she calmly said, "Awwwwww, Honey, look on the bright side. You've had over a year to develop new habits and strategies. You'll be just fine. You don't need that crutch. Ask yourself, why do you need that crutch?".<br /><br />I HATED HER AT THAT MOMENT. Crutch!?<br /><br />If I have changed so much over the past year+, why have I gained 20+ pounds over the past two months!?<br /><br />I am trying so hard not to worry about the possible outcome, but I am constantly reminded of my potential allergy with every single spine tingling chill that moves over my body every couple of minutes. I am pale, sweaty and feel sick.<br /><br />I never thought that for a split second I would ever wish I had Lymphoma.Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-46260650200939718812011-01-07T16:50:00.000-05:002011-01-07T16:51:14.255-05:00Adult Truths<span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;color:black;"><span style="font-family: Arial; color: black; font-size: 10pt;">1. I think part of a best friend's job should be to immediately clear your computer history if you die.<br /><br />2. Nothing sucks more than that moment during an argument when you realize you're wrong.<br /><br />3. I totally take back all those times I didn't want to nap when I was younger. <br /><br />4. There is great need for a sarcasm font.<br /><br />5. How the hell are you supposed to fold a fitted sheet?<br /><br />6. Was learning cursive really necessary?<br /><br />7. Map Quest really needs to start their directions on # 5. I'm pretty sure I know how to get out of my neighborhood.<br /><br />8. Obituaries would be a lot more interesting if they told you how the person died.<br /><br />9. I can't remember the last time I wasn't at least kind of tired.<br /><br />10. Bad decisions make good stories.<br /><br />11. You never know when it will strike, but there comes a moment at work when you know that you just aren't going to do anything productive for the rest of the day.<br /><br />12. Can we all just agree to ignore whatever comes after Blue Ray? I don't want to have to restart my collection ... again. <br /><br />13. I'm always slightly terrified when I exit out of Word and it asks me if I want to save any changes to my ten-page technical report that I swear I did not make any changes to.<br /><br />14. I keep some people's phone numbers in my phone just so I know not to answer when they call.<br /><br />15. I think the freezer deserves a light as well.<br /><br />16. I disagree with Kay Jewelers. I would bet on any given Friday or Saturday night more kisses begin with Miller Lite than Kay.<br /><br />17. I wish Google Maps had an "Avoid Ghetto" routing option.<br /><br />18. I have a hard time deciphering the fine line between boredom and hunger.<br /><br />20. I love the sense of camaraderie when an entire line of cars team up to prevent a jerk from cutting in at the front. Stay strong, brothers and sisters!<br /><br />21. Shirts get dirty. Underwear gets dirty. Pants? Pants never get dirty, and you can wear them forever.<br /><br />22. Sometimes I'll look down at my watch 3 consecutive times and still not know what time it is.<br /><br />23. Even under ideal conditions people have trouble locating their car keys in a pocket, finding their cell phone, and Pinning the Tail on the Donkey - but I'd bet everyone can find and push the snooze button from 3 feet away, in about 1.7 seconds, eyes closed, first time, every time.<br /><br />24. The first testicular guard, the "Cup," was used in Hockey in 1874 and the first helmet was used in 1974. That means it only took 100 years for men to realize that their brain is also important.</span></span>Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-73533246359415030092010-12-19T11:05:00.001-05:002010-12-19T11:05:40.218-05:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhK9cDygWlseOPka8w0Xey9IK0cxt0SN2Pc6J4ZiF8I1rwnSYPQv_GNrBTyhKwbz4ga2zRiPa97R3_Vb6kPnJmn20vtZhyI6cFLmVIo1Yw_UoE1hjCMj_ozlLxHtkcF8WPqpnyVHVdd5FM/s1600/bunny7.png"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhK9cDygWlseOPka8w0Xey9IK0cxt0SN2Pc6J4ZiF8I1rwnSYPQv_GNrBTyhKwbz4ga2zRiPa97R3_Vb6kPnJmn20vtZhyI6cFLmVIo1Yw_UoE1hjCMj_ozlLxHtkcF8WPqpnyVHVdd5FM/s400/bunny7.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5552425205748782194" border="0" /></a>Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-58237370868000372562010-12-01T21:56:00.003-05:002010-12-01T22:01:28.482-05:00Urgent News Story<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJD5bxGgvLGyQU_l4V7m-HsUZoYih-8-aRXctNJZw5xmwmux72dAkpOqkEctzC9V5LA8PWccqF4_HryLs55HU4QPNy5QNfvdhfe8i-svJGI9HxTdj6PVmQ2YKsXSNKrTqFx9iSain5meA/s1600/spa.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJD5bxGgvLGyQU_l4V7m-HsUZoYih-8-aRXctNJZw5xmwmux72dAkpOqkEctzC9V5LA8PWccqF4_HryLs55HU4QPNy5QNfvdhfe8i-svJGI9HxTdj6PVmQ2YKsXSNKrTqFx9iSain5meA/s320/spa.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5545914396668017362" border="0" /></a><br />I have found a cure everyone! ;)<br /><br />When you feel like overeating, even if you already have the food in hand, turn on some "spa music". Seriously! It's REALLY hard to binge while listening to calming music. The need to shovel "it" in seems to dissolve.<br /><br />Breathe in, breathe out, breathe in, breathe out....<br /><br />Ahhhhhhhhh...................Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-29069127097262091402010-11-23T19:34:00.003-05:002010-11-23T19:40:40.053-05:00I'm DrainedI had my first appointment in eight months today. After telling my surgeon's assistant my recent symptoms... :<br /><ul><li>craving sweets/sliders (ice cream!)</li><li>heartburn</li><li>frequent vomiting</li><li>and a horribly uncomfortable pinching sensation around my stomach that prevents me from sleeping/moving/eating comfortably (similar to the feeling I had right after my surgery when my stomach was swollen)</li></ul>...she concluded that I was probably too tight. She ordered a fluoroscopy and we could see that when I swallowed the contrast, it all sat in the top pouch. Only a drop or two actually went through while we sat there and watched it for about 30 seconds. So, she ended up taking out my fill and prescribing an anti-inflammatory.<br /><br />This probably was the result of a stomach bug I had about a week ago. All the vomiting made for one angry stomach and band. :(<br /><br />I go back in in about two weeks to put some fluid back in. Maybe this will help me stop my adaptive eating and get me over this darn plateau!Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-67349489924540214552010-11-22T17:09:00.003-05:002010-11-22T17:22:00.966-05:00Oh, How I Hate TheeI haven't been happy with my surgeon's office for quite some time now. Actually, I've been so unhappy that I haven't been in for an appointment in about 9 months now. Oops! :/<br /><br />I've been having some pinching pain lately that hasn't gone away for a few days, so I figured it's time to go in and see the people who don't care about what they're doing. Here is my conversation with the receptionist (whom I don't know at all because there is a new one every time I go/call):<br /><br />Dr. E's office: (mumbled, barely intelligible) Surgical Specialists<br /><br />Me: Hi, my name is Lynn Magoober (no, not really), and I need to see someone about some pain I am having. I have the Lapband.<br /><br />Dr. E's office: Hold please.<br /><br />(Ten minutes passes. Yes, ten minutes.)<br /><br />Dr. E's office: Ma'am? You need to schedule a fill, right?<br /><br />Me: NO, I've been having some pain.<br /><br />Dr. E's: Well, we aren't here on Thursday or Friday this week.<br /><br />Me: I realize this isn't a good week to try to get in, I'm sorry about that. It's just I've been putting off this pain or a while, and it's not going away. (I am SO sorry that I hurt, I should have put this off until AFTER the holiday! Geesh. Sorry to inconvenience you.)<br /><br />Dr. E's: Mumble, mumble, mumble.... 11:40 tomorrow?<br /><br />Me: Thank you, that would be great.<br /><br />Dr. E's: (annoyed) 'Scuse me, you didn't give me your name.<br /><br />AHHHHHH!!!!! I HATE, HATE, HATE that office! I don't know what to do.<br /><br />I SO wish I could find an office that actually cared about their patients/business. I feel like I am part of a meat market.Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-35165463448655257402010-11-19T23:29:00.005-05:002010-11-19T23:46:18.372-05:00IroningI feel like I need to address a few wrinkles. In my last post about downing two pints of ice cream, I completely, totally, 100% take ALL responsibility for having such junk in my freezer. That was definitely my fault. Even though I have the band, I am still overcome by my old urges. It will be a continual task for me, I am sure. But I do realize that I have no business bringing that garbage into my house. I just can't have it in there. Lesson learned. I passed the ice cream section at the grocery store yesterday and I averted my eyes, and held my head high.<br /><br />It seems like I have done a bit of blogging, okay a LOT of blogging, lately about my consumption of ice cream. It has become my crutch during my moments of weakness. I seem to blog during those moments making it appear as though I sit around eating ice cream all day.<br /><br />I haven't been very diligent about blogging all of my good news. Why? I don't know really. I need to be blogging about all of the miles I am running. All of the healthy choice victories. About a pound lost here or there. But, I just feel like my life is SO darn boring. The thought about logging in to report that I ran two miles tonight, ate well that day, or lost a pound seems like news that I SHOULD be reported daily. BUT, alas, I am lazy.<br /><br />It seems that I only blog about things that I do wrong, or when I am feeling scared along my journey, and that is not fair. It's not fair to me, because I am not giving myself positive credit and reinforcement, and it's not fair to all of the newbies or "wannabes" (used nicely!).<br /><br />I will try to blog more about all the great things in my life, because there are many. For instance, the nature preserve near my house that I have NEVER brought my boys to because the fear of having to hike has steered me clear, is no longer a fear. Instead of avoiding it, I keep reminding myself that I need to take them so we can hit the trails!<br /><br />Another wrinkle- I am NOT ashamed of being banded- at all. The reason that I have wanted to keep it hush-hush is not only because my husband's family is sickeningly judgmental, but because I fear all the extra pressure from others. I place so much pressure on myself, and I fear that having another set of people in my life who feel a need to constantly ask, "So, how much have you lost so far?" "How much have you lost since I last saw you?" "How much do you weigh?".<br /><br />In an effort to avoid awkwardness, I have chosen to keep my banding a secret from most of the people in my life. My closest friends and immediate family all know, and of course all of you!<br /><br />But, to reiterate, I <span style="font-weight: bold;">do not </span>think the band is shameful in any way, whatsoever. I am proud of all of you and I am certainly proud of myself.<br /><br />Thank you- ALL OF YOU- for following me and supporting me on my journey. I appreciate all of your comments, whether they are the smack in the face that I need, or fluffy, I read them all and take all to heart. If I didn't have this outlet, I wouldn't be where I am today- happier and healthier.Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-35524697544652120872010-11-19T07:38:00.003-05:002010-11-19T08:06:41.543-05:00Do NOT Try This at HomeHow many of you have heard of strange things people do while under the effects of a sleeping aid?<br /><br />Well, here is my story:<br /><br />I was prescribed Ambien months ago for a bad bought of insomnia. Since then, I have only taken it a small number of times. The other night I was SO tired and the fear of laying in bed not being able to fall asleep until 4:00 in the morning convinced me to take an Ambien.<br /><br />I took a WHOLE pill and headed downstairs to watch a movie until I was feeling tired. I sat down with a pint of Ben & Jerry's (I had good girl plans...) and settled into the couch. Within five minutes, the actors and actresses in the movie had four eyes. Feeling content with just the top layer of my ice cream being gone, I headed for bed.<br /><br />The next morning, I laid in bed confused about what had happened the night before. My husband told me that I had called him to say that I was going to bed and that I sounded completely coherent. I don't remember calling him, at. all. Then it dawned on me... I don't remember putting the ice cream away! I concluded the rest of my precious pint was left on the coffee table, melted, and spread all over the couches and carpet by our dog.<br /><br />After getting ready for church, I was running out the door and did a quick check- nope, no ice cream left out. Oh good, I must HAVE put it in the freezer.<br /><br />Fast forward several hours.....<br /><br />Later that afternoon I was thinking about sneaking a spoon full of my tasty nemesis, and headed for the freezer. Uh-oh, the ice cream wasn't in there. I checked the fridge just in case in my drunken stupor I was confused- nope, not in there either. What on earth!!?? Feeling defeated and confused, I headed over to the trash. Yup, the container was in there. I had eaten the WHOLE thing and didn't even know it!<br /><br />That's okay, I have another one in the freezer. Or do I? Where did that one go? I can't find that one either. NO. NOOOOOOO. Tell me it isn't possible. In complete denial, I headed for the trash again. Sure enough- TWO containers of B&Js lay in the trash can. COMPLETELY cleaned out and empty.<br /><br />I had managed to sit GOD knows where and down TWO WHOLE pints of ice cream without even knowing it! That just isn't fair.<br /><br />Then the realization of how bad the situation could have been kicked in. I was home alone with my boys. What, if in my Ruffie like state, I thought I could drive for some reason and stuck them in the car... what if I had inflicted bodily harm in some other way... what if.... what if....? Uh, I can't even think about it.<br /><br />From now on, only HALF a pill for me and my husband is going to handcuff me to the bed!<br /><br />Oh! and one more thing... after sitting at 225 lbs for a FIVE month long plateau, I am finally at 222 again. But being sick for the past three days has definitely had something to do with that, so I can sheepishly take credit. I am just glad I am finally moving in the right direction!Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-38724047356095766502010-11-09T21:10:00.003-05:002010-11-09T21:15:25.023-05:00Help, I Can't Breathe!So, now that the weather has gotten colder, I have been reminded that I suffer from cold air asthma. Basically- exercise induced asthma caused by the cold air. When I went out running the other night, I made it about .25 miles before I couldn't get any air in, I was wheezing, gasping for air and it felt like an elephant was crushing my lungs! So, off to the doctor's I went.<br /><br />My doctor prescribed me an inhaler, but an inhaler has never worked for me in the past. He said that I may not be able to run outdoors again until the warmer weather. Seriously!?<br /><br />I have just gotten to the point where I am really hitting my stride and enjoying running. I HATE exercising inside, I absolutely despise it- it's boring and painful for me.<br /><br />Have any of you dealt with asthma issues? Have you found something that works for you?<br /><br />I am thinking about running with a scarf over my mouth to help warm and moisten the air. I have to figure something out to counteract my recent ice-cream splurges! :/Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-57627893889046402342010-11-04T07:32:00.002-04:002010-11-04T07:33:46.089-04:00Binge & Scary'sWhy is it that it takes almost ten minutes to scrape off and eat the top layer of a Ben & Jerry's pint, but in less than a nano-second, the rest of it is gone!?<br /><br />I can't for the life of me figure this one out.Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-18749995824854822942010-10-27T14:48:00.003-04:002010-10-27T15:01:52.606-04:00"I Know You Have the Lapband"I was outside playing with my boys yesterday when a neighbor pulled up. I walked towards her van to greet her and she said there was something that she would like to talk to me about.<br /><br />Hmmmmm....<br /><br />Now, this neighbor has been trying to lose weight and has been struggling lately. But, I still wasn't sure where she was going.<br /><br />THEN- she dropped the bomb. She proceeded to say, "Well, I know what you had done, and I am thinking about getting it done also, but I had some questions".<br /><br />GASP :0 ! I tried to play dumb, but internally I started to panic.<br /><br />I have kept my banding a "secret" for over a year, and I had intended on keeping it that way. But, when you put your story out here in cyber-space, nothing is private anymore. Even though I blog with my middle name, she was able to find me while researching the band.<br /><br />Now- two things:<br />1. I can be a total biatch and make her feel bad.<br />or<br />2. I can support her, now that she knows.<br /><br />I plan on choosing #2. But, I am feeling so disappointed today. I have to be honest. And neighbor, if you are reading this, please don't be upset. Just know, like I said before, it's so hard to share without feeling like you have some anonymity.<br /><br />If you went on the evening news and told the World about my banding, I would be shocked and horrified. But, the truth is, this is my life. Just little old me. And after the World found out, they would quickly forget and go about their normal business.<br /><br />I just can't help but feel that those who aren't struggling (or who have never struggled) might not understand my choice. After all, how hard is it to put the food down and move our asses!? Right!?<br /><br />Just because I have the band does not mean I purchased a "get out of jail free" card for $25,000. What it means is that I reached the end of my rope and that I needed a tool to get me pointed in the right direction. A compass of sorts- that's it- my band is my compass. I can choose to use it and go in the right direction, or I can shove it in my pocket and go South.<br /><br />Upon finding out, my other neighbors might be judgmental, or feel as though I cheated in some way and that the glory of weight loss isn't mine to hold high. The neighbor who found out has promised to respect my privacy 100%, and I really respect her for that. She is a good person, and I trust in her that she will do the right thing.<br /><br />The cats out of the bag folks... running freely. What a small, small World we live in.Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com14tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-20129840442025084282010-10-25T11:50:00.001-04:002010-10-25T11:51:28.009-04:00Too MuchI have SO much I want to talk (write) about, but I have been too darn busy!!! I am hoping that I will have some time to sit down and put some thoughts and feelings into words later tonight.<br /><br />I'm alive. ;)<br /><br />Hope you are all doing well!Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-30687840231586506242010-09-28T21:12:00.005-04:002010-09-28T21:26:23.841-04:00Apples & Oranges & Pears Oh My!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8YTzjKDA1gMQzC2fgyhLAOcoamYpICQk7hWhY9keDr-JAtlmGMTyVyjTgoB9Ev4mUMHuP2B7ZzJ8uVDvRypZgGrgLhDJYxIiOv51owRA_GtCVF8AwstWC7anT_fF_LwroyGtCRG-fNAo/s1600/apple.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 267px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8YTzjKDA1gMQzC2fgyhLAOcoamYpICQk7hWhY9keDr-JAtlmGMTyVyjTgoB9Ev4mUMHuP2B7ZzJ8uVDvRypZgGrgLhDJYxIiOv51owRA_GtCVF8AwstWC7anT_fF_LwroyGtCRG-fNAo/s320/apple.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5522140461564432850" border="0" /></a><br />So- I have been thinking. I know, dangerous. I've been thinking about my body and any excess skin I might have once I reach my goal weight.<br /><br />I remember watching The Biggest Loser a few seasons ago and there was a young girl about my age that lost around the same I have to lose. I noticed that when she had lost her weight she didn't have any "visible" excess skin. Her arms were nice, toned and tight looking. I pinned my hopes on her arms being nice because her skin bounced back well due to her age.<br /><br />I am quickly learning age has NOTHING to do with it. After examining my legs closely the other night, I noticed that I have wrinkling skin right at the nook of my knee bend. Not a good sign.<br /><br />I am one of those people you would consider- um.... how do I say this... "proportional", meaning that when I gain, I gain EVERYWHERE. Not just my tummy or my rear, even my elbows store fat.<br /><br />The girl from Biggest Loser was what most would consider an "apple". She stored most of her weight around her mid-section leaving her arms and legs relatively unscathed by her obesity. SO, when she lost weight, her excess skin was around her mid-section that was well hidden and her legs and arms looked fantastic!<br /><br />That is NOT going to be me. I am going to have half the Atlantic Ocean worth of waves and ripples going down my legs and my arms are going to occupy a different altitude than my head. Weight loss is one of those times that it pays to be an apple or pear, but not proportional.<br /><br />With that said... I know it is SO much better to have that extra skin all flabby and floppy than it to be stretched to maximum capacity with fat, but still. After working so hard, I may have to consider some plastic surgery, something that I would never have wanted to think about before. O'well.<br /><br />A whole new perspective on body shape, huh!?Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5050527020338611721.post-57190543748068045392010-09-25T22:20:00.003-04:002010-09-25T22:27:24.827-04:00I Couldn't Make This Up<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8VuxVoS7bhTgtMZTzM85AnA5qErsDEtTR05THY2RdpAN1pyNnpgJBSx7gPYgFqbm6NVkdMexuSmgY2I0yCqLCEubTeHv2hD8c4L4z1fa5vdYkS7GB59wa-UjSHPSap8YwHLstRNvdJCo/s1600/mintchoc.jpg"><img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi8VuxVoS7bhTgtMZTzM85AnA5qErsDEtTR05THY2RdpAN1pyNnpgJBSx7gPYgFqbm6NVkdMexuSmgY2I0yCqLCEubTeHv2hD8c4L4z1fa5vdYkS7GB59wa-UjSHPSap8YwHLstRNvdJCo/s320/mintchoc.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5521043069420167970" border="0" /></a><br />Okay, this seriously happened. I was driving home with my boys this morning from my oldest's soccer practice. I happened to look to my right and guess who was sitting at the red light next to me!?<br /><br />The ice cream nazi!!! Seriously.<br /><br />She smiled and waved, rolled down her window and asked, "see you later today?".<br /><br />I replied, "No, I don't like you anymore!".<br /><br />It sounded harsh, but I was just kidding. Well, kind of. ;)<br /><br />I told her that I can only come once a week and that I had to start limiting myself. So, knowing her, she'll hold me accountable. You can always count on the ice cream nazis!!!Lynnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10634249236570967599noreply@blogger.com5